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Raymond A. Heninger

Posted 2018-10-17 by mhenderson
Published in Today's New-Herald on Sept. 30, 2018 -
Lake Havasu City, Arizona

>> Raymond A. Heninger <<
>> March 22, 1941 - Aug. 18, 2018 <<

Known as “Tony” to close friends – Born March 22, 1941 in South Bend,
IN – USA (age 77) Passed away a few weeks ago at home – after years of
sickness, even dying once in 2005 and a number of surgeries, passed
quietly with his long time (27 year) devoted, beloved friend,
companion and domestic partner, Patricia Williamson beside him,
holding his hand – caring and praying with him as she promised –
faithfully until the very end.

We thank Hospice for their help – they were faithful to come weekly to
check on Tony- we thank friends who visited regularly Herb, Ted, Mark
& Susie, and to those faithful friends that came around when they
could and/or called frequently; Vernon, Clark, Frank, the TURNER
FAMILY & Matt, and those from the Island, Joe, Marse, Erick & Billy
(long time childhood friends); others that came prior to his demise to
see him off; Ben & Ted.

Tony gives thanks to his ½ brother Wes for reuniting Tony with his
father, Raymond E. Heninger (prior to Raymond E’s death) who had not
seen Tony since he was 8 years old. (this portion was written by Tony
prior to death).

Preceded in death, Tony’s mother, Kathleen Redford; step-father, Bill
Redford; Father Raymond E. Heninger.

Tony was an only child – who grew up on Catalina Island – like most
kids, he enjoyed daydreaming of being on the beach making money while
starring out the window during school – UNLIKE most kids he got to do
that very thing! Right after school – daily! Dove for quarters thrown
by tourist in the ocean when the (BIG) tour boat would dock, (late
1940’s & 1950’s) worked as a boat launcher, met a lot of movie stars,
he flew in the Catalina Water Plane, also worked on the Blanch W
shining lights at night so the tourist could observe the “Flying
Fish”. Well, Tony had to grow up – went on with another life – only to
make the mistakes as most young men have made in their past – then
went and did a great thing! Joined the Army – became a Senior Medic
during the Vietnam Era – earned the Good Conduct Medal – he returned
to the Island. Working with his step-father who ran the only paint
shop on the island, which is now the same building as Coyote Joe’s –
upon moving to the “main-land” he worked as a fence builder – then
worked part time-odd jobs and lived on his GI funds for support while
attending Fullerton College – upon receiving his degree he then worked
for the California Corrections Department until retirement. When his
whole life took a number of turns.

While working security he met a lifetime beloved friend, Patricia
Williamson, who also worked in Law Enforcement – and at a number of
Police Departments-they both decided to have Pat come and live closer,
for Tony was very ill, Pat gave up her career, traveled with Tony for
a year before they both decided on settling close to Lake Havasu for
that was Tony’s second love of water- in LAKE HAVASU CITY, 2003.

Tony and Pat published a book called “Without Honor” -Tony, worked
Security part-time on weekends at Havasu Springs Resort and then New
West Dental Ceramics, until he could no longer work.

All Funeral arrangements are being handled by “Desert Lawn” located in
Mohave Valley – IN LIEU OF ANY FLOWERS – (per the Mortuary-flowers
will be disposed of) To Honor this great man, we’re requesting your
help in getting Tony who served in the Army buried in the “Garden of
Honor” section of the Mortuary – to do that: donations are needed – a
special account has been set up at National Bank of Arizona. Under,
Patricia Williamson for Raymond Heninger’s burial fund or you can
contact the Mortuary directly any and every amount is appreciated.





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